Effy and Jacqueline chat with Steve Dean, a dating and relationship coach, about how to feel connected, keep dating and meeting new people in meaningful ways.
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Effy and Jacqueline speak to Karolyn who shares her experience of approaching her husband to discuss what non-monogamy might look like in the context of their existing relationship.
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Effy and Jacqueline sit down with Midori - author, artist, educator, and “The Supernova of Kink” – to explore BDSM and kinky play. We dispel myths, rethink assumptions, and reintroduce kink as a fun and playful way to curiously engage with your partner(s).
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Effy and Jacqueline explore the difference between rules, agreements, boundaries, and promises - and answer the question “If not fidelity, then what?”
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Effy and Jacqueline invite Taylor to talk about her experience as a unicorn (the majestic creature that joins a couple for a night of wonder and magic) and now her quest for a third to join her and her partner.
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While transformation denotes a dramatic change from one thing to another, Effy and Jacqueline discuss how we are focusing on evolution - by stripping away the things that no longer align with our truth.
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Effy and Jacqueline explore the delights and complications nonmonogamy can bring to this time. Effy and Jackie focus on missing the people we love and feeling left out during the holidays as well as discuss what can be done to minimize heartbreak and pain that can come up.
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With speakers and panelists covering topics from living with an incurable STI to the impact of porn in our society to adoption and family, Consider This was bigger and bolder this year. Listen as Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla take you through a summary of each talk and panel and bring you the insights from the day.
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Effy and Jacqueline sit down with a live panel to hear their diverse stories and to discuss coming out as non-monogamous.
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Effy and Jacqueline lead this lively discussion where Foxes shared from the heart as always. Unlike our usual panel discussion, we tried out a different format where we held a discussion group focusing on hierarchy in open and polyamorous relationships.
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Effy and Jacqueline discuss making new connections in the world of polyamory and open relationships when it comes to dating with a brave Fox, Ben, who had a very interesting story to tell.
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Effy and Jacqueline discuss making new connections in the world of polyamory and open relationships when it comes to dating with a brave Fox, Ben, who had a very interesting story to tell.
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From sexual or relational orientation to the way we show and receive love, knowing who we are and how we show up in the world is key to designing relationships we can thrive in. Effy chats with a diverse set of Foxes on this live panel.
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Effy collaborated with our friends at Grown Up Questions, a podcast about the life long process of becoming adults. The hosts Ben and Hannah, a brother and sister, explore the love languages with us to make sense of the way they connect to one another.
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Metamour is the term used to describe the partner of one’s partner. While you may not have a romantic or loving relationship with your metamour(s), they can play an important role in your life. Whether you want to build a strong friendship with your metamour(s) or just want to be sure that your needs do not get sidelined as a result of your metamour(s), navigating through this unique relationship is an important part of consensual non-monogamy.
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Effy draws out stories of how people moved from established rules that protected them, to establishing freedom that liberated them in the spirit of joy and compersion from a diverse set of Foxes on this live panel.
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First coined by Andie Nordgren, RA has roots in political ideology and calls for relationships not to be bound by rules aside from what the people involved mutually agree upon. It rejects a formal distinction between sexual, romantic, or platonic relationships. So what does that look like day to day?
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People change. Relationships change. How can you navigate through those changes in a way that honors everyone involved? How can you and your partner(s) create an environment that supports evolution and growth? From monogamous to open, a couple to a triad, a partner to solo poly, to conscious uncoupling - what can you learn from other people’s experiences around transition?
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