Romantic Love
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Here are 6 tips to help you explore the full scope of your attraction, while staying in integrity within your monogamous relationship.
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This is the most comprehensive date night guide you will ever find! We share 30 date night (and day and weekend) ideas that have the power to transform your relationship(s) by adding connection, play, romance, variety, and eroticism.
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In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline speak with LGBTQ rights lawyer and advocate, Diana Adams, about the very real concerns non-traditional individuals and families should have about their rights within the United States.
What happens to a relationship after there is betrayal? Is it possible to rebuild after trust is destroyed? Can infidelity exist within a non-monogamous relationship?
Effy and Jacqueline explore the love-at-first-sight myth and try to parse apart the difference between attachment wound activation and attraction (and even arousal) - which can all feel confusingly similar to the nervous system when we meet a potential new partner if there’s unaddressed trauma.
Effy and Jacqueline invite journalist and author Amy Gahran to the show to discuss the relationship escalator, what it looks like to get off it or opt out of it in the first place, solo polyamory, voluntary singledom, couple’s privilege and its flip side, singleism.
Effy and Jacqueline explore the delights and complications nonmonogamy can bring to this time. Effy and Jackie focus on missing the people we love and feeling left out during the holidays as well as discuss what can be done to minimize heartbreak and pain that can come up.
Effy collaborated with our friends at Grown Up Questions, a podcast about the life long process of becoming adults. The hosts Ben and Hannah, a brother and sister, explore the love languages with us to make sense of the way they connect to one another.
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Communication
Does the idea of talking money in your partnerships trigger a stress response? You're not alone, but financial planning is a part of any relationship design. Come along as we explore some strategies to simplify this difficult conversation.
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How many times have you heard that the key to a happy and healthy relationship is communication? The real question is “what is communication?”
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Non-Monogamy
Here are six tips to help you bring up the topic of non-monogamy with your partner…and avoid a fight.
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Are you home alone while your partner is out on a date? Here are 3 tips to help you navigate through the loneliness and jealousy.
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It’s is time to challenge the traditional relationship construct that has been handed to us, and instead, consciously co-design a relationship that aligns with our evolving needs, values, and desires.
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You may be trying to design your non-monogamous relationship(s) based on what you know about monogamy. Here are three things to consider when designing relationships that are only limited by consent and your imagination.
2 MIN READ